What is it about a sista with some freckles sprinkled across her face?

Yeah, I fall for curves(in the right places) and some ass(proportional and bigger) all the time, but what is it about freckles on a sista that I have to take extra notice? In the past, it hasn’t even been the heavily freckled ones, but the not so plentiful or sparsely freckled ones that I fall for. Moreso, this isn’t an old, since I discovered the joys of women type infatuation. Its been a fairly recent development(10-15 years) that I tend to pique my interest if I come across this skin development.

Ya know, growing up in a predominantly Black world, you would think that a sista with freckles would be old news for me. For instance, sistas with blue eyes and blonde hair are to other dudes is almost like a unicorn for some brothers to cross paths with. But for me its not! I knew a girl with blonde hair/blues in high school, and 2 others in college with the same features. I’m so used to and cool with it that I have to dig deeper to find something about them that I’m more attracted to. Chalk this up to maturity and the ability to move beyond something as superficial as looks.
However, with freckles…

My ears perk up like a Doberman’s whenever they hear a strange noise. All other brain functions just stop and my attention, all of it, is directed toward sista-girl with the skin blemishes that resemble Signac’s Femmes au Puits. I don’t remember when this phenomenom first appeared. I have no idea how it started nor the first sista that I recognized sexually with freckles. Its just been haunting me like an ex-girlfriend who happens to be free whenever I hit a slump.

It Is What it Is....

Whatever they lack in height, they aren't lacking for in women chasing them....

Seduction

Seduction happens when two people attempt to lure the other across an imaginary line that has been pre-determined by society at large that they should not cross. Much like a few biblical characers and other assorted historical figures, power can come into play. But in regards to seduction, this power is not based on some social position held by one of the parties involved to take advantage of the other. Seduction in its simplest form is moreso an extension of self-esteem that which is geared toward finding it's limits. Searching to find its sphere of influence in persons not yet analyzed. Even further, it can be a stance against a social norm. And, given how long us humans have been on this planet, there are plenty of these taboos floating around to flirt with by exerting our wills.

For me, seduction is alot like a confidence game in that I want to see how persuasive I can be to someone that just might be more apt in this field than I am. There is a curiosity to know how far the boundaries extend in our relationship. Not just romantically, but also platonically, too! What kind of agreement are we trying to make here? Seeing as though Men and Women cannot be friends unless the question of attraction is answered, well, I'm going to search for that answer before we continue this bottle of rum or wax poetic about Tarkanian's amoeba defense.

In the long run, Seduction should be mutually beneficial to both parties that are involved. It is a shared experience of joy and ecstasy that should in the end have both parties feeling a satisfactory level of fulfillment. For it wouldn't be Seduction if the end result is one party feeling used or unsatisfied.

Full-Length Bubble Coats

Years ago in college, me and my fri3ends were hanging out at the apartment one night. Nothing was going on at the moment since it was fairly early in the evening. We were in there shooting the breeze in a good ol' college town environment. The whole crew was there so to our surprise, there's a knock at the door. I go to answer it, wondering if its a police officer or somebody trying to complain of us being loud(although, we really weren't). I was just really trying to figure out why/who was knocking at our door.

I open it and to my surprise, it was this young lady that I knew from school. Fine looking lady at that...

She had shoulder length hair. Smooth skin. Curvy within the parameters of a 5ft 4 inch frame. She also had glasses. I have a thing for glasses since I, too, have to wear corrective lenses. The funniest thing about her was that she knew the words to Black Sheep's entire first album("Wolf In Sheep's Clothing"). I found this out one day while walking by while she was working the front desk of one of the dorms and the CD was playing. She had the flows and pace down pat. It also helped that the song that was playing when I caught her doing it was "La Menage". After that, I couldn't get her attention to holler. So I had by this time given up on getting the panties.

She was standing in the hallway outside my door, wearing a trench coat. I didn't look long enough to see if she had clothes on underneath or even some "Fuck Me Pumps". By the time she recognized that it was me and I recognized her, she quickly asked for one of my friends. Without flinching, I called my guy in the crew that she asked for. He got up, grabbed his coat, and darted out the door with her. All the while saying "Aiight fellas! I gotta go now!!!!"

It was the classic "I got some pussy to beat up!" move....

We all recognized it right then and there. The rest of the crew asked me what she had on and just like I'm telling you, that is all I saw. Its enough for me to believe that this young lady pulled the same move Robin Givens(and countless other women) did in "Boomerang.




The trench coated visit is a well-honored move in the world of The Infinite Pursuit of Ass(IPA from here on out in this blog) that is practiced by seductive women the world over. Its not so much predicated on universal looks, but moreso on seduction. At least from a guy's point of view, its seductive. Technically, though, its pretty damned assertive for a woman to show up unannounced in a coat and some panties(AT MOST) at a lover's place of residence expecting him to be instantly turned on. Its a blatant call to action by her and the guy has to answer the call no matter what. There is no gray area. It eliminates any bullshit from being tossed. For if there is any, its over and done with.
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But now, its winter time.

A thin trench coat ain't going to cut it! Especially where I live in which the winds blow so hard they have been known to cause scars, injuries, and infrequent tears to roll down one's face. One learns how to walk backwards in Chicago because its better to bump into an inanimate object than to face the blowing wind with an exposed face.

A woman needs to adapt to the weather change as well. She doesn't have to stop making moves just because its cold outside. Sheeeeeeeit....all she needs to do is trade in the trench coat for a full length down, triple fat goos/bubble coat. Its doable and has been done. If you don't believe it, go to the club....

(Some Thursdays)Friday and Saturday night, go to a spot that has women under 30 in there. Post up across the street or nearby within view and watch how many go in rocking full length coats. Try to have a guy on the inside, though, so he can tell you what they have on once they remove their coats. Chances are, a good percentage will have on some knee/thigh high boots and a short skirt(maybe even some paint on jeans) or a pair of leggings underneath all of that.

Its an amazing thing to behold.

Minds like that of a guy will have no idea, no clue as to what was on underneath that facade of the full length down coat. Its a revelation of sorts to go from thinking that she's practical on the outside, but hiding some rather devious garments under that. There is an overall joy in seeing the sharp twist take place when wome do this.

The larger idea is that when doing the trench coat surprise you are showing your beau that you are not allowed to tell him what you want from him. Not what you want in general. Not what you like either. But WHAT YOU WANT!!!! It removes from the board any guesswork that is usually around in the dating game.

What I like

The things I like to look for in a woman are:

Truthfulness
Intelligence
Gentleness
Humility
Talent
Politeness
Understanding
Sexiness
Smarts
Youthfulness




In otherwords T.I.G.H.T.P.U.S.S.Y