Away Games

Lately, I've realized that I have been playing a lot of "Away Games" when it comes to meeting women. I've been fishing in somebody else's pond. Poaching on somebody else's hunting grounds. And, as Avon told Stringer, you have got to be careful playing too many of these away games. Just ask the basketball teams from the SWAC and MEAC....

Yeah, its good to play your fair share of these "away games" in order to become a better player. It helps with your adaptability and how you can handle 'Hostile environments', so to speak. However, too many of these will have you worn down and inefficient. And also, more likely lacking any discernible identity that people can use when describing you to others when you’re not around.

You don't want that to happen....

Not only that, in playing too many "Away Games" you won't be able to build a rapport with those at "Home". These would be the bartenders, waitresses, other regular patrons, the actual owners of various establishments that you frequent, where you meet/take members of the opposite sex. You need to be in a position where they will give you an assist. It also helps to know which agents might throw salt your way should you bring a young lady as company. These can also be called ‘hostile fans’.

It Is What it Is....

Whatever they lack in height, they aren't lacking for in women chasing them....

Arthur Ashe

"True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever the cost."
-Arthur Ashe

Before I Let Go

"Never make moves until your heart and mind are in agreement"

A fellow Chicagoan once said....

"Curiously enough, a great many women are attracted to a man who has been romantically involved with a number of women. There's also something complimentary about being singled out for attention by a man who has numerous lovely ladies to choose from."

- Hef

...So, there are women out there who just want to get chose.