So in continuing my diatribe about "Julie Gianni"........
A fuck buddy is that somebody that is on your level, but not compatible across the board. There are a few areas in their personality that you just can't deal with. They are not "right" but they are "right now". Practically, you just want to have a continuing one night stand for several weeks or months. They are that canteen of water you carry while looking for the bigger body of freshwater. I dunno. You should get the point by now.
Where they enter "Julie Gianni" stages is when they develope feelings that cannot be reciprocated. They get srpung. They can't get enough of you. They want to see "you", but you're emotionally unavailable because, well, you're not trying to be in a relationship. Somehow they miss the possibility that you're not trying to be in one and hence you've cut off your emotional access entrances. But this drives them further into delusion. Its patheitc now that you see these "Giannis"(plural) trying to convince the other party that the two are meant for each other.
All the while the other party is looking for *that* one and much to the dismay of "Julie Gianni", this does not bode well. Mainly because "Julie Gianni" feels that they are the best thing since sliced bread, and that nobody else is right for you. Even this mope of a new thing, who is firmly and calmy inside their skin has caught your attention.
I've been "Julie Gianni". Not for long because my big bro schooled me on such matters of rehabilitation. But for those who are not privy to such sage advice, I'm here to help. With only a few more sentences.....
Just cause you beautiful and s/he beautiful doesn't necessarilly mean that Y'ALL beautiful. Honestly, y'all could get together and have all shit the fan. One of y'all could pull and Marcus Graham and have a thing against crusty feet or night time facial masks. In the end, y'all can get together and make some godforsaken ugly ass'd babies that you don't want to acknowledge!!! You really do have to take into account that something is not working, and both of y'all should just move on.
Besides, buses come every 15 minutes and The Game does not wait for NOBODY!
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